Profil jlallen: New Beginnings

Informations de base Parlez-nous un peu de vous.

Je sais parler Anglais
Je me décrirais comme I am kind-hearted, gentle, thoughtful, calm, caring, giving, open/honest, intelligent, intellectually curious, and have a sense of humor. I am not the comedian; but can appreciate one. Saying I am independent would be a lie, I believe that we are all interdependent. I have a strong sense of self and am looking for someone who has a strong sense of self and will be my equal. I am looking for someone that will interact with me on a peer to peer basis. I have learned to listen well. I believe that conflict is a necessary part of any intimate relationship. What is crucial is how that conflict is dealt with. For me, it has to be an open conversation where both sides are free to speak their thoughts without insulting or demeaning the other. It is to stay focused on the topic at hand and nothing else. Time-outs are acceptable. One is never allowed to attack or belittle their partner. To harm others is to harm oneself. Those are just some of my thoughts on conflict. I think we learn much by being open.

I expect my mate to enjoy life and all that it has to offer, to be open to new ideas and new things, to teach me new ideas and new things, to give me different ways to look at some things, to be there always for me no matter what comes, to be honest and open, to be able to communicate well and often, to never hold secrets from me, to touch me, caress me. I demand that my mate be on the same level as me, not above me nor below me, for life is an adventure together. I expect grace and compassion. One who has a joy for life and for love. One who express her love well and often. Some who enjoys lovemaking and is adventurous in lovemaking.

I am a spiritual man. I walk with God on a constant basis. He guides my life. I do not fear God. I love God. He has shown me His grace and His mercy.

In descending order, my priorities are: God, self/mate (we are one), family, friends, and work. I enjoy outdoor festivals such as burning man, motorcycle rallies, and renaissance faires. I also enjoy ballet, theatre, and art. I am a trained photographer.

I smoke a cigar every 2-3 weeks. I may drink once or twice a week, and then never more than two drinks. Sometimes I go for weeks without alcohol. Alcohol is something that I can take or leave. I do not do drugs and never have. I am losing weight due riding my bicycle vigorously almost daily. I do have some tattoos, which I am fond of. I have tattoos on both legs and both upper arms. My tats are mostly wolf related. I swim and scuba dive. I have flown helicopter.

It is my believe that we need to live in the now. There is no past, it is gone. The future is yet to come. There is only the now. If we truly live in the now, we will see more of life and enjoy more of it. I believe that we must always do our best, never make assumptions, take nothing personally and always be impeccable with our word. Those four things are simple phrases that when followed have a tremendous impact on your life.
Signe Lion

Apparence & situation Comment êtes-vous? Décrivez votre apparence.

Ma silhouette est Quelques kilos en trop
Ma taille est 5' 8 (1.73 m)
Mes yeux sont Bleus
Mon origine ethnique est Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est Divorcé/e
J'ai des enfants Oui - parfois chez moi
Je veux des enfants Non
Ce que j'ai de mieux Sourire
Art Corporel Tatouages visibles
Mes cheveux sont Châtains
J'en ai 1 ou plus Pas d'animaux
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs Oui

Statut Que faites-vous dans la vie?

Mon niveau d'éducation est Diplôme d'études supérieures
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est Mi-temps
Mon domaine de compétence est Médical / Santé
Je vis Seul/e
Chez moi Des amis passent à l'occasion
Je fume Oui - des cigares
Je bois de l'alcool Oui - socialement

Personnalité Comment vous comportez-vous? Quels sont vos goûts?

Au lycée, j'étais un/e Fana de sport
Socialement, je suis plutôt Réservé, Observateur, Sympa
Mes passions et loisirs sont Apprendre, Musique, Internet, Théâtre, Voyages, Camper, Ordinateurs
Un bon moment pour moi c'est Sortir avec des amis, Faire de nouvelles expériences, Jouer aux jeux vidéos, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait An interesting and fun conversation over lunch while on a patio on a warm afternoon. Or an evening at the Shakespeare festival. Or a day at a Renaissance faire.
J'ai toujours voulu essayer Making love for 2 hours straight.
Mes amis me décrivent comme Sympa, Un amour

Points de vue sur la vie Vos valeurs et points de vues.

Ma religion c'est Chrétien
Je vais à la messe Une fois par semaine
Mon but dans la vie c'est To enjoy the rest of my journey on this planet.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt Intelligent, Sympa

Goûts Qu'est-ce que vous aimez?

A la télévision, je regarde Films
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours Action, Science-fiction, Comédies
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est Country, Rock, Pop, Classique, Blues, Jazz, Folk
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est Ordinateurs, Fantaisie, Santé, Philosophie, Sciences, Science-fiction, Ouvrages techniques
Mon idée du fun A ride on my motorcycle through the Sierras. Being with friends and people I love.

Recherchant un/e Que recherchez-vous chez l'âme sœur?

Que trouvez-vous attirant? Intelligence, Beauté, Humour, Talents, Empathie, Sensibilité, Etrangeté, Spontanéité, Séduction, Bon sens, Délicatesse
Que recherchez-vous? I look for openness, honesty, and friendliness. I want someone who is spontaneous.
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous? Vrai‧e ami‧e, Rendez-vous, Relation intime